Welcome back to our FREE self-help series, where we share practical steps to help you live a better life.
Take a moment to let that sink in. 90% of happiness depends on how you think about life.
Happiness is not determined by WHAT is happening, but by HOW you think about what is happening!
So why aren’t we all incredibly happy?
Why are more and more people struggling with mental health issues?
The first problem is that many people don’t REALISE the incredible power they have over their happiness by learning to take control of their thoughts.
The second challenge is that it’s HARD to control our thoughts—especially in the modern world.
For example, through constant advertisements, we are being programmed to think we NEED a whole range of material things to have a complete and happy life.
We know we have fallen for the marketing, and into a mindset trap, if we ever hear our internal voice saying things like:
“My life will be better when I get that new iPhone, move to a bigger house, get a faster car, book a summer holiday, or buy a luxury watch etc.”
By thinking like this—and treating happiness as a future destination—we are missing out on the journey of our own life.
Further, if we’re not happy, we can’t PERFORM at our best—which means we’re also missing out on living up to our full potential.
Happiness isn’t the result of success—it’s the starting point.
At SOHA, we know that controlling your thoughts isn’t easy—as humans naturally resist change, and breaking old patterns is tough, but it’s essential for a fulfilling life.
That’s why our retreats offer a chance to step away from the noise of everyday life and embrace new perspectives in an environment free from the usual distractions.
But you don’t need to wait for a retreat to start reframing your mindset. Here are some simple techniques you can try today:
Happiness is often about perspective. Instead of focusing on what’s MISSING, shift your attention to what you already have. Appreciate the small things—a warm cup of coffee, the sound of birds singing, or even the ability to listen to your favourite music.
Stop taking these everyday joys for granted, and you’ll find happiness in the little moments.
We only ever experience life in the present. The past and the future don’t truly exist in our reality. Yet, we often get stuck dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, missing the beauty of the here and now.
Take time to ground yourself in the moment and appreciate what’s right in front of you. Whether it’s a beautiful sunset, a song on radio, or the simple pleasure of breathing, life is happening now.
Your thoughts shape your reality. If your inner dialogue is negative, it’s no surprise that your day feels harder. Work on reframing those negative thoughts into positive ones.
For example, instead of thinking, “I have to go to work,” try, “I get to go to work and make a difference.”
This simple shift in perspective can transform how you experience your day.
Do one more thing, watch this!
Shawn Achor’s video, is only 12 minutes long, but the ideas it contains could completely transform how you approach happiness—and success.
Next time, we’ll build on these ideas.
SOHA is a dedicated team of wellness professionals committed to helping you enhance your overall wellbeing. With years of experience in hosting retreats, as well as transforming the lives of 100,000 individuals through Athletic Minds Foundation, our associated mental health charity, we bring together a blend of holistic practices and modern comforts to create an environment where you can truly unwind and reconnect with yourself.
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